What is the early recovery couples empathy model?
ERCEM is a structured approach that helps couples begin repairing connection in the aftermath of betrayal.
This model emphasizes emotional safety, empathy, and accountability, recognizing that true healing begins when both partners feel seen and understood. Through guided conversations and therapist support, the partner in recovery learns to show up with empathy and take responsibility for the impact of their behaviors, while the betrayed partner is given space to express pain, ask questions, and receive validation. It’s a powerful step toward rebuilding trust, restoring emotional intimacy, and laying a foundation for long-term relational healing.
You will learn helpful interventions such as:
Trigger Busters
Knees-to-Knees
AVR Model